The plan for the worst month.

If Frank Hartwell died tonight, this is what the family would have to do, in order, and who would do each part. Every step, figure and warning is computed live from what the family recorded: the accounts, the papers, the people and Frank Hartwell's own words. The red ones are where families come apart. Today, each of them can still be fixed.

Steps
14
Nobody named
1
Passes without court
$5,646,000
Waits for probate
$7,262,000

Fix these now, while Frank Hartwell can still sign.

Each one is read from the family's own record. Today each is a meeting or a signature. Afterward it lands on the family, and often on a court.

  1. 1
    Diane Hartwell is still named on the rollover IRA
    $1,640,000. Divorced in 1999; the form is from 1998. A beneficiary form overrides the will.
    The fix: Frank Hartwell signs a new form with the advisor. One signature, today.
  2. 2
    The will is from 2008, before Frank Hartwell married Elena Hartwell and before Sam was born
    Signed Mar 14, 2008; married Elena Hartwell Jun 21, 2008; Sam born 2013.
    The fix: Frank Hartwell signs a new will, with an estate attorney.
  3. 3
    Mateo Ruiz has no automatic right to inherit
    A stepchild inherits only through a named bequest, a beneficiary form or an adoption.
    “He is my son. The paperwork does not say so, and it should.”Frank Hartwell, on Mateo
    The fix: Frank Hartwell names Mateo in the new will or on a form.
  4. 4
    The revocable living trust was drafted and never signed
    Until it is signed it does nothing, and everything meant to go through it goes through probate instead.
    The fix: Frank Hartwell signs it, with an estate attorney.
  5. 5
    Nobody is named to take over Hartwell Millwork
    $4,200,000. No successor and no recorded agreement.
    “I built it so nobody in this family would ever have to ask anybody for anything. I have not decided who gets it, and I know that is a problem.”Frank Hartwell, on the company
    The fix: Frank Hartwell names a successor in writing, with the attorney and the advisor.
  6. 6
    4 papers haven't been looked at in 18 years or more
    Last will and testament, Durable power of attorney, Healthcare directive and Beneficiary designation - rollover IRA.
    The fix: Frank Hartwell reviews them with an estate attorney, in one sitting.

The first days

Day 1 to 7

Before anything else.

  1. Report it, and have a second person confirm it

    Elena Hartwell reports it in fAImily and Daniel Hartwell confirms it; nothing opens on one person's word. Then what Frank Hartwell prepared opens to the people Frank Hartwell chose, on the family's rules: home & household and legal papers right away; digital life and business after 1 day; money & accounts after 7 days.

    Elena Hartwell· spouseDaniel Hartwell· executorWalk through it
  2. Order about 9 certified death certificates

    One for each of the 7 places below that will ask for one, and two spare. Ordering them together saves weeks.

    Daniel Hartwell· executor
  3. Read what Frank Hartwell wanted, together

    Frank Hartwell put 3 things in writing. They aren't binding; they are what Frank Hartwell hoped for. Read them together before anyone decides anything.

    “I built it so nobody in this family would ever have to ask anybody for anything. I have not decided who gets it, and I know that is a problem.”Frank Hartwell, on the company
    “He is my son. The paperwork does not say so, and it should.”Frank Hartwell, on Mateo
    “Elena stays in it as long as she wants. After that the kids work it out.”Frank Hartwell, on the house
    Elena Hartwell· spouse

The first two weeks

Week 1 to 2

Every place that holds something, and who calls it.

  1. Keep Hartwell Millwork running

    Los Angeles, CA

    $4,200,000
    Through probate

    No beneficiary is recorded, so unless it is titled jointly it passes under the will, through probate. Nothing moves until the court appoints Daniel Hartwell.

    Nobody is named to take it over, and no agreement is recorded. Someone has to be able to sign payroll and speak for it next week.

    • Last will and testament · signed Mar 14, 2008 · Attorney's office, Century City
    Nobody namedThe family's attorney· keeps the account details
  2. Whole life policy

    Pacific Life

    $3,000,000
    By beneficiary · no court

    Passes to Elena Hartwell by beneficiary designation: outside the will, no court. Elena Hartwell files the claim with the policy and a certificate.

    Their advisor's firm· keeps the account detailsElena Hartwell· named on it
  3. Primary residence

    Los Angeles, CA

    $2,850,000
    Through probate

    No beneficiary is recorded, so unless it is titled jointly it passes under the will, through probate. Nothing moves until the court appoints Daniel Hartwell.

    “Elena stays in it as long as she wants. After that the kids work it out.”Frank Hartwell, on the house
    • Last will and testament · signed Mar 14, 2008 · Attorney's office, Century City
    Daniel Hartwell· executor
  4. Rollover IRA

    Charles Schwab

    $1,640,000
    By beneficiary · no court

    Passes to Diane Hartwell by beneficiary designation: outside the will, no court. It becomes an inherited account for Diane Hartwell; how it is taken out is a tax decision worth making with the advisor.

    Diane Hartwell is named on this. Frank Hartwell and Diane Hartwell divorced in 1999, and the form is from 1998. A beneficiary form overrides the will, so as the paperwork stands, this goes to Diane Hartwell.

    • Beneficiary designation - rollover IRA · signed Feb 10, 1998 · Charles Schwab
    Their advisor's firm· keeps the account detailsDiane Hartwell· named on it
  5. Joint brokerage

    Fidelity

    $910,000
    Held jointly · no court

    The record says it is held jointly, so it passes to the surviving owner, outside the will; the institution retitles it on a certificate. Nothing names who gets it after that.

    Their advisor's firm· keeps the account detailsElena Hartwell· spouse
  6. Operating account

    Wells Fargo

    $212,000
    Through probate

    No beneficiary is recorded, so unless it is titled jointly it passes under the will, through probate. Nothing moves until the court appoints Daniel Hartwell. Bills paid from it stop until then.

    • Last will and testament · signed Mar 14, 2008 · Attorney's office, Century City
    Daniel Hartwell· executor
  7. 529 college savings - Sam

    ScholarShare 529

    $96,000
    By beneficiary · no court

    Passes to Sam Hartwell by beneficiary designation: outside the will, no court. It stays Sam's to use; a successor owner has to take it over.

    Their advisor's firm· keeps the account detailsSam Hartwell· named on it

The months after

Month 1 to 12

Settling it.

  1. Open probate for the 3 things with no beneficiary

    $7,262,000
    Through probate

    $7,262,000 waits for the court: Hartwell Millwork, Primary residence and Operating account. Daniel Hartwell files the will and is appointed. It is public, and it takes months.

    The will was signed in 2008, before Frank Hartwell married Elena Hartwell and before Sam was born. A trust drafted to keep these out of court was never signed.

    • Last will and testament · signed Mar 14, 2008 · Attorney's office, Century City
    • Revocable living trust · never signed
    Daniel Hartwell· executorAn estate attorney· not chosen yet
  2. Pop's tape measure to Sam Hartwell

    Frank's workbench

    'Measure twice' is scratched into the case with a nail. Frank has it and has never once lent it out.

    Daniel Hartwell· executorSam Hartwell· named for it
  3. File Frank Hartwell's final tax returns

    One for Frank Hartwell's last year, and one for the estate if it earns anything while it is open.

    Daniel Hartwell· executorTheir advisor's firm· has the statements
  4. Sit down with the advisor

    $5,646,000

    The firm keeps the account details for 4 of these, $5,646,000. It can move each one to the people named, and help Elena Hartwell with what comes next.

    Their advisor's firm· keeps the account detailsElena Hartwell· spouse

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